Luxury Christmas Gift for a Man + Gift-Giving Etiquette
Want to buy an elegant holiday gift for a man? As always, you can take different approaches:
- You could give him a gift just to check it off your list—what we’ll call a "single-item" gift.
- Or, you can spend a bit more time thinking about it and choose something that shows he’s important to you. This isn’t just any random gift but reflects the art of thoughtful gift-giving.
Following the first approach, you might go for something universal and low-effort, like a voucher or something similar. Of course, a voucher can still be a good choice, but we encourage you to add a personalized touch to it, like a note: "I thought these hours at the spa would bring you joy and relaxation."
We're opting for the second approach, starting with some tips on the art of giving elegant gifts. Next, we’ll provide specific examples of products you can buy for your husband, boyfriend, father, or grandfather this holiday season. Or perhaps even a business partner? The following suggestions work well for family, friends, or business.
Some of Our Tips on Gift-Giving Etiquette
The Risk of Giving Size-Specific Gifts
In our view, it’s best to avoid gifts that come in specific sizes unless you are 100% sure of his measurements and have checked the shirt or sweater yourself in-store. Relying on general sizes like M, S, or L can lead to disappointment, as sizing varies greatly across brands. In extreme cases, an M-sized shirt in one store might match an L-sized shirt in another. While you could keep the receipt and exchange the item, the magic of the gift can fade, and the recipient might feel it was a quick, thoughtless choice. Adding a receipt to the package confirms this impression, which isn’t the effect we’re aiming for, right?
Give Gifts That Show a Personal Touch
The rule is simple: you need to know someone well enough to realize they might be missing something in their wardrobe, or perhaps they have an old, worn tie and would look great in a sleek burgundy one (a color that complements their look, which you can mention to add a personal touch).
For example, you could think, "I’ll give him his first real tie" (find out what makes a tie "real" here: Luxury Men’s Ties – How to Recognize Quality). This way, you hope he’ll retire that old or low-quality tie and start wearing your gift, enhancing his appearance with a more polished look.
Game Changer: A Note or Verbal Explanation
When choosing an elegant holiday gift for a man, show that your choice has meaning. Here are two options:
- Prepare a nice piece of paper and write down why you chose this specific gift for this specific man. In our opinion, this is key—this is the true art of giving gifts.
- Say it face-to-face. When the recipient receives your gift, express what inspired you to choose it.
Below, you'll find concrete examples of what you could write or say in such a situation.
Elegant Holiday Gift for Men #1: A Pocket Square with a Pattern that Matches His Taste and Interests
A men’s pocket square conveys a message, which makes it an especially thoughtful and elegant holiday gift for a man.
Examples?
- I thought that since you practice yoga, you might like this silk Zen pocket square.
- I know your faith is important to you, so I wanted you to have this Raphael pocket square to wear over your heart, whenever you feel like it.
- For a bird lover like you, I chose a silk pocket square with parrots. Merry Christmas!
- I know you enjoy dancing, so I wanted to give you a pocket square inspired by your interests. Include a note with this message in the gift box for the Party pocket square.
- I noticed you wear silk pocket squares, so I thought you might like a natural blend pocket square in silk and cotton for winter. I tried them out—they’re fantastic!
Pocket squares come without sizing concerns. They can be easily personalized in a casual yet meaningful way, reflecting your thoughtfulness toward someone.
Additionally, they add a fun, collectible element with the images printed on them. And if the design isn’t a perfect match for his taste, remember that only a small part of the pocket square shows from the pocket. It won’t stop him from using it to add flair to his outfit.
Elegant Holiday Gift for Men #2: A Wool Scarf That Truly Keeps You Warm
It’s important to emphasize that the quality of the gifts you buy matters greatly. If it’s going to be elegant, it needs to be well-thought-out and of high quality.
An elegant holiday gift for a man could be a wool scarf. One product with so many benefits: it warms the chest and the heart, keeps the entire body warm, effectively wicks moisture, and allows for airflow.
You can include a note with the wool scarf that says:
I used to have several scarves, but I felt they didn’t do their job. Ever since I got this scarf made of virgin wool, I no longer know what it feels like to be cold in winter. Lots of warmth and Merry Christmas!
You can learn more about the highest quality scarves in the article: https://www.dignito.pl/how-to-wear-mens-scarves
Elegant Holiday Gift for Men #3: Suspenders for True Comfort
Here’s a sample note you can include with the suspenders:
I know you don’t wear suspenders yet, but I tried them two years ago, and I can tell you they’re way more comfortable than a belt. Since then, I’ve stopped wearing belts altogether. Give them a try (the suspenders come with buttons), and I guarantee you’ll be tailoring your next suit for suspenders, not a belt.
Your intention is for the recipient to try something new, and it’s a casual suggestion—again, we emphasize that it’s non-obligatory. Plus, there’s a story behind the gift: I wanted you to give it a shot. And if you’re not convinced, you can always sell the accessory and get your money back. I meant well, but it’s perfectly fine if you decide otherwise."
You can buy suspenders made of virgin wool here: https://www.dignito.pl/eng_m_Scarves-226.html
Elegant Holiday Gift for Men #4: A Tie with a Twist
A tie is also a great holiday gift idea, but it's important to have at least some knowledge of the man's wardrobe. If you’re not sure about the necessary details, you can always ask.
A random tie might be perceived as just a generic gift, so here are some specific examples of how to avoid that:
- I wanted to give you a tie that goes perfectly with the jeans and wool blazer you love. This is a shantung tie, which is ideal for casual meetings where you want to look professional. Merry Christmas!
- I know you like ties, but I haven’t noticed a grenadine tie in your collection." Again, a note like this shows that you want the man to try something new and have fun with it.
By including personalized notes and stories with your gifts, you demonstrate your thoughtfulness. You can apply this to any gift, from a new TV to unique fragrances. This way, you justify your choice, and it makes the recipient feel truly appreciated.
In summary, men's accessories make excellent holiday gifts for several reasons:
- They are versatile and don’t come in sizes, which helps you avoid the risk of giving a product that might be too tight or too loose.
- They can be beautifully personalized with a story or a note.
- Quality accessories will last for many years and enhance one's image, which is highly valued.
Tips for Choosing the Perfect Men's Accessory Gift:
If you want to buy a great holiday gift, consider the following elements:
- Think about the recipient: What do they like? What colors do they prefer? What are their interests?
- Know their wardrobe: Don’t just focus on patterns; consider the other clothing items in their closet.
- Consider their lifestyle and profession: For example, if someone is a lawyer, you probably wouldn't buy them a colorful tie that they can't wear in court, but rather a more subdued option, like a navy grenadine tie.
At Dignito, every product comes to you in a box made in Italy.
A perfectly tailored box is an elegant solution. Our ties, suspenders, scarves, and pocket squares always arrive in premium packaging produced in Italy.
Elegant Gifts for Businesses from Dignito
We engage individually with companies regarding holiday gifts. The art of giving business gifts is similar to that of giving gifts to loved ones.
We advise against gifts with logos. Instead, we provide our clients with personalized ideas, such as:
- A car dealership can send pocket squares featuring car designs to its best customers.
- A developer might gift new homeowners pocket squares with layouts of their apartments.
- A city office can offer its employees pocket squares featuring a map of the city, and so on.
We successfully help marketing departments come up with creative and fitting holiday gifts, including packages like a tie + pocket square.
We hope you now know how to buy an elegant holiday gift for a man. If you have any questions, feel free to write to us at info@dignito.pl
